It's debatable whether 3 months is considered a suitably long period for developing attachments or is too short or is "just right" to maintain a balance. Its also debatable whether 3 months is enough to bring about long term change or just trigger it off or is it just a stop-gap mechanism. Such questions have been the content of my discussions with colleagues and friends (and in Manila, its pretty much the same set) for the past few days.
For me, personally, I believe that I have developed enough of an attachment to really miss this place, and the people here, when I am gone, but not sufficient to grieve over it. I also believe I have been able to set up a framework for adequate change, provided the stakeholders actually follow it through. Yes, both these statements are guarded and that's probably the new me :)
Contrary to my expectations, Manila turned out to be a genuinely large, interesting city. The malls are I think its main tourist attraction and some of them are not bad at all! Mall of Asia is huge as an airport but pleasant and tasteful and Greenbelt of course is the most beautiful shopping area I have been to (except maybe Dilli Haat!). I have enjoyed the plentiful availability of iced tea, the ubiquity of ACed places/cabs, the Herschey's chocolates, the nice cafes with crepes, the convenience of my location, the ever-friendly people, the helpful staff....oh god, i sound like a travel brochure! But yes, there's very little unpleasant I can think about my stay here....I have a few more hours to go, so I hope I am not tempting fate!
And people. This has been such a challenging assignment, but never stressful. And thats UNPRECEDENTED for me! Its just the culture - more pleasant and calm compared to my motherland - no wonder they think Indians are crazy! Of course there are not-good side effects to this culture, but thats another story....
Thankfully, I made friends here as well, real friends. Pia, Allan etc...friends of a flavor very different from my others, but people I could be comfortable enough to share a lot of personal details with. I hope to continue these relationships.
So now my bags are packed, I will probably have an excess baggage for 10-20 kgs...sigh :) So symbolic, ha ha ha ha ha ha......